We all know, technology is great and can be a wonderful thing if used in moderations. I remember growing up in the 80’s in Germany; everyone said TV is bad, go outside and play. A lot of my friends didn’t have any TV’s or weren’t allowed to watch. My family only had 3 channels until I was well into my teenage years. Flash forward to 2013 and not only do our kids have TV access, they also have iPad’s, iPhone’s, Kindle’s, Internet and all kind of game systems like Wii, Playstation3 and many more.
We all know the exposure these electronics have to our kids and I’m not saying they are bad at all. Honestly, I always recommend our iPad to our friends and their kids. My Princess has the iPad1 and used it ever since she was 2 or maybe 2.5, I think.
If you can find a used iPad 1 for a reasonable price, it will be better than any of the “learning” games out there that will cost you hundreds to get started and each game will run $25 and up. The iPad is a onetime fee and even without the purchase of any of the many apps, you have a learning tool ready to go. Millions of wonderful App’s a FREE, especially for kids. But if you are planning on investing in a few games that actually cost money, it really won’t break your bank, $1.99 or maybe the most I’ve seen for a full game for a Preschooler is $4.99; can’t complain about that.
Now, that being said, there is also cautions of using any of the electronics. Limit the amount your little one plays on these devices. I’ve seen an article the other day about kids and iPad’s and was truly amazed. Children as young as 6 month old got addicted to using the iPad or the iPhone and when Mom or dad would take away the device, the child had true withdrawal symptoms from tantrums to kicking, screaming, biting and what not. In most cases the parents gave in within seconds to calm the child down and keep it quiet. NOT the way these devises should be used in my eyes.
I see the reactions first hand with my princess, first thing in the morning she asks to watch Netflix on the Ipad, then should would go on and play games on the Ipad and move on to another movie. Before you know it, 6 hours must have gone by and she never walked away from the Ipad.
She would get up sad and from a calm, fun, loving child a very mean, angry girl appeared. That was before I’ve seen the news reports, but I knew something had to change. I don’t want her to spend days on the Ipad. I get the point, she’s learning, coloring, drawing and interacting. BUT… there is a life out there as well.
I came across some amazing App’s, some are free and some have a small cost to keep track of the time your child spends on the iPad/iPhone and it will even lock the device or unlock it depending on your settings. Check out some of the App’s I found and looked into.
Game time Limit for Parents $0.99
Limit your child’s game playing time on the iPhone, iPad, and iPod. Essential parenting tool. It’s wise to monitor and limit the time your child spends playing games or watching video on the iDevice. The American Academy of Pediatrics’ recommends that parents limit screen time to no more than two hours per day. You can do just that using Game Time Limit for Parents.
Ranger Browser – Safe Internet Filter with Customizable Parental Controls ~ FREE
Ranger Browser is a fully customizable Safe Browser designed specially for the iPhone, iPod Touch and iPad. Parents are able to access the browsing history and customize the Internet filter settings from anywhere in the World. In addition, Ranger Browser allows you to limit Internet access to the times you determine. The filtering system uses a combination of blacklists, combined with customizable whitelists to create a solid, reliable filtering system that is updated hourly. Your security is enhanced as your web traffic is not re-routed through our servers in any way, ensuring your children’s data is completely secure.
AVG Family Safety ~ FREE
AVG Family Safety® is a free, secure, family-friendly Web Browser, which helps protect your children from inappropriate websites, while also keeping your whole family safe from scam, fraud, phishing and potentially malicious online content.
Kidsafe YouTube Lite – safe videos for kids with parental control ~ FREE
Educational and entertaining videos can help to keep the little wonders focused. But if you are a parent you know that leaving your child to browse the internet without any type of content filter is never a good idea. While there are a number of “child-safe” sites online, there’s always the risk that your child might stumble on something that you don’t want them to see even more so when there’s videos involved.
There are many more App’s, just put in your iTune Store search “Parental Control” and a bunch will come up. Which one you will use, is up to you; everyone has different needs and wants, but I highly recommend you use something to limit the time your little one spends on these devices.
There is so much they can do without an iPad, so grab the kids and enjoy the great outdoors after their time limit is up. With these App’s it will also be easier on parents to set limits. The kids will learn when the timer goes off my play time is up and trust me after a few days you will not have any tantrums, kicking and screaming. The kids will adjust and put up the devise on their own and move on to something else.
P.s. I was not asked to write about any of these App’s or about the safety issues; all opinions are 100% my own and may differ from yours. There may be affiliated links in this post. I’m disclosing this in accordance with the FTC guidelines.
Melissa says
I need some of these thanks for sharing!
daisy says
These are great because my toddler loves his iPad, but he gets angry when I tell him that he’s spent enough time on it. We’ve had some bad meltdowns over this. I like the idea of him having fun, but limiting the time. It sound intriguing and I like that Game time Limit for Parents is only .99cents.
Pam says
I think we need the Average Family Safety. I was researching something the other day and all sorts of inappropriate links popped up.
Melanie Roberts says
Pam.. I actually use the AVG on the PC as well and LOVE it!!!!!!!!!! I just found it for the ipad and had to share it. So far it is working well for the ipad
Mellissa Hanks says
These sound like great apps I will have to try some out 🙂
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Kristyn Kilcullen says
love these! My daughter spends way to much time on her ipad and these would help with that!
Mary Beth Elderton says
I am all for kids having access to technology! It is something the need to be highly proficient with in this world. As a kid we also only had 3 TV channels, transistor radios, landline phones—but that was the technology of the day and we knew how to use it. Having said that, I agree that there are aspects of today’s technology that may need a more careful eye when it comes to small kids. These are good recommendations.
Cindy Burger says
This is a great post! I just want to add one more app to the list. Our son use to get to upset when game time was over and I would try to get my iPad back. My husband found this free app called KidStar. It let’s us set game play limits and our son earns 10 stars for returning the iPad early and 2 stars for returning on time. Stars go towards rewards like having a friend sleep over or going out for ice cream. I didn’t think he would care about the stars but he loves it. We’ve only been using it for a few weeks but it is a total life saver. Would recommend for any parent who has trouble getting their iPad back.
Melanie Roberts says
THANK YOU Cindy; I have been searching for this App for weeks, I’ve seen it somewhere before but couldn’t remember the name. THANKS, will get i t loaded for my kids. So glad your son loves it and it makes returning the iPad that much easier.