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My baby just turned 6 this week and looking back at when she was born it sure was a challenge and a change for the entire family. I already had two boys that were ready to head to middle school, so a little girl that would scream and cry all day wasn’t something any of us were used to. Of course feeding a family of 4 to feeding a family of 5 with an infant was a big change as well. I decided to put together a few of my favorite tips to share on how we prepare for the future and how we managed living with a red-head that had everyone wrapped around their finger the moment she opened her eyes.
What actually made me think about creating this post was an article that I read online somewhere the other day and it mentioned how much it will cost to raise a child and BOY, the number had shocked me. Of course it all depends on your City/State, but in general most of us will end up spending close to that amount; are you ready to hear it?
I based the calculation on a baby born in 2012, all over the US and with a middle class income… You will have to spend $240,000 to raise this child till he/she turns 18. BOY, that is a number, of course we all know it will not stop the minute they turn 18. Now add a second, a third or maybe a fourth child, the cost is WOW! So check out some tips that helped me keep the kids happy, healthy but that hasn’t broke our bank and I doubt we made it anywhere close to the $240K; BUT I’m not really counting either…LOL.
5 Tips to raise healthy, happy little ones that helped us NOT break the bank
1. As soon as your bundle of joy is born, start a savings account or a College fund of some sort. I know 18 years seems so far out; TRUST me… Do it!! My oldest just turned 18 and I have no idea how that happened, but I’m not ready to send him off to college just yet; with the little one I planed the minute she was born and a little at a time helps me save over a long time instead of coming up with a big junk down the road. Of course it is NEVER too late to start saving, so make that your number one goal to set aside a little at a time.
2. Use coupons! A lot of people shy away from coupons, but they will cut your cost of having to feed, clothes and anything else the kids may need drastically, even as much as 75% in some cases. I started using coupons when my baby girl was born and in general saved a lot of money on food, personal hygiene items and even diapers. Even if you don’t like the food that has coupons offered, the savings on other everyday items like diapers, formula, soap, shampoo will be big enough to let you buy your healthy veggies and groceries without breaking the bank. I don’t buy processed food a lot, so my savings there aren’t the biggest, but I maximize my savings in the other areas and it does it!! Check it out the next time you go to the store.
3. Say No! Don’t be afraid to say no to the kids. Do they really need to have that 20th Barbie? The 6th backpack? It really doesn’t hurt to say not sometimes and that money can be used for other things that are needed or even tucked away into that savings account. They will be mad for a day and then don’t even remember. Stick to it and say NO!
4. Prepare home cooked meals ahead of time. That is a big money saver in our home, we prepare homemade dinners and freeze them; when we get home late no fast food run, we just grab a frozen meal, heat it and sit down on the dinner table. Making me feel good both that I was able to save money (trust me a McD’s run for my family of 5 isn’t cheap!!) and dish up a healthy home cooked dinner that my family can enjoy.
5. Hand me downs aren’t all that bad! I’m not talking about all the outfits the Walton’s wore and handed down to each sibling, but let’s face it, Jeans never go out of style. Buy them used or hold the ones from older siblings for little ones, they will come in handy and you don’t have to spend lots of money on Jeans to dress the kids. Play shirts will get dirty anyways, so grab a few hand me downs and let the kids have fun in the dirt. This will save you a bundle by not buying brand name every time they grow out of a size, trust me, they will grow fast!
There you have it, 5 tips on how to raise happy little ones from baby to Teenagers that will keep you sane and your wallet happy; the best thing. The kids have no clue you are skimping on them. I’m sure I will not spend $240K on each child if I can help it, how about you?
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Are you currently preparing for a new baby? What tips do you have for new Mom’s that are just starting out thinking everything is needed for that precious bundle of joy to grow up? Would love to hear your tips and ideas. Will you spend $240K on your kids through they graduate college…?? Let’s chat
Barb W. says
Awesome tips! Your little girl certainly is an charmer!
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Sofia says
Great tips!! I would also add to only buy what you REALLY need for your little one. If you will only use the item a few times, take for instance a changing table, then you really can do with out it.
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Jennifer says
These are all awesome tips, thank you so much for sharing! We only have one child and she costs us a small fortune. I need all of the money saving tips I can get!
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Kelsey Apley says
Great tips for sure. We don’t have any kids yet, but maybe one day! I will keep these tips in mind!
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Candace says
These are great tips. As a parent it’s so easy to want to just give them the world, but it’s important to remember you give them more if you teach them how to spend wisely.
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Scott says
Don’t forget Goodwill/Thrift stores. They have tons of baby stuff that the kids outgrow well before they’re worn out.
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Chrishelle says
Mine are just in their teens and I think I am way over $240,000. Those are great tips. I use everyone of them. My first just entered his first year of college last year. It is crazy what it cost to educate your child, and that is with grants and scholarships.
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Clair Boone says
Thanks for all the tips, especially the college plan. I NEED to get on top of that asap and keep putting it off!
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brett says
I like sweepstakes- maybe i’ll win?!?! i’d love to!! super ideas- esp saying NO to kids
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Ellen Christian says
Starting a savings account is so important. They grow up too quickly!
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Erika says
Great tips! With four kids, I’m a big fan of coupons, hand-me-down’s, and saying no. 🙂
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Brittany C. says
Huge fan of hand me downs and coupons!!!! Great tips on ways to prepare for baby without going over budget!
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Mama to 5 BLessings says
great tips, we have 5 children ages 8 and under, believe me every little bit helps!
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Ashley Sears says
Those are some really great tips. With two daughters, hand me downs have been a LIFE saver! We just pack away when the oldest daughter would out grow them and save them for the youngest.
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Pam says
Awesome tips! Both of my kids are sick a lot, so I have spent more than I would like to recall on prescriptions and doctors visits…so I try to save any other way I can! Homemade meals and couponing have helped us out so much.
Tammilee says
great tips! Coupons have saved us so much money
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Jennifer Soltys says
I don’t have kids, but think your tips are great!!! Definitely use coupons and save regardless!
Tess says
I would like to of done things a bit different with not buying as much as I did. great tips.
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Ashley - Embracing Grace says
Great tips! Quick question, is a back bag like a backpack?
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Melanie Roberts says
lol.. yeah darn Spell check …backpack…lol..just blame it on me being German…hahah
Ashley - Embracing Grace says
Oh okay! 🙂 I wasn’t meaning to correct you, I was just curious if that was a different way of saying it.
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Wendy | Around My Family Table says
Hahaha..I swore I’d never take hand me downs. Now I’m sad we don’t get anymore cuz they are too big and all their friends wear out their clothes. 🙂 Great tips!
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Elena says
Those are some great tips. I especially like the ones about clipping coupons and opening a savings account.
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Debi says
One good thing I am good at is no. Except at Christmas and then I lose my mind.
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Melissa says
These are such great tips!
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Greta says
These are fabulous tips – even for people with no kids
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Liza says
Kids are definitely not an inexpensive addition to the family 🙂 Your tips are great, though, for keeping costs down. Saying “no” is sometimes hard for me, because I love to treat our family; I am trying to do more of it this year, though. And with as fast as young kids go through clothing hand-me-downs make sense if you have an older sibling or cousin to share from!
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Marielle Altenor says
Love these tips! With our son we open a saving account for college he moment we got home from the hospital. Both his father and I did get the chance to have college tuition money saved up by our parents and we thought it would be best to plan ahead for our child. If he chooses not to go to college he will have the funds available to start up his own business if he wants to. We got lucky with clothes and received quite a bit from family. Noting wrong with hand me down for sure.
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